The Ten Commandments of Giving


Dr. Roy W. Lawson (1932-2014) is fondly remembered by the constituency of The Fellowship of Evangelical Baptist Churches in Canada (FEBCC), the family of Christians through which he faithfully served God throughout his life.

Some years ago, Dr. Lawson presented a brief paper on giving for the leaders of a church responsible for preparing a church budget. He entitled it “The Ten Commandments of Giving.”

I first saw this paper in a weekly email  to pastors and leaders of the FEBCC from Steven Jones, President of the FEBCC . These are excellent principles concerning how Christians should approach the spiritual discipline of financial giving. Dr. Lawson’s Ten Commandments are reprinted here by the kind permission of Steven Jones.

The Ten Commandments of Giving

Commandment #1: Percentage Giving

“‘I am the Lord, and I do not change. That is why you descendants of Jacob are not already completely destroyed. Ever since the days of your ancestors, you have scorned my laws and failed to obey them. Now return to me, and I will return to you, says the Lord Almighty.’ But you ask, ‘What do you mean? When did we ever cheat you?’ ‘You have cheated me of the tithes and offering due to me.’” (Malachi 3:6-8)

Two great mistakes we make regarding percentage giving:

1. We have given people the idea that if you give a tenth everything else will be taken care of. God is not obligated to bless poor management.

2. We have led people in a direction as to the purpose of their giving that is incorrect. “If everyone tithed we would never have a need.” The reason God asked man to give is the very same reason He put the tree in the garden: man needs a constant reminder that God is in authority over him.

Commandment #2: Generosity Giving

“If you give, you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full measure, pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, and running over. Whatever measure you use in giving – large or small – it will be used to measure what is given back to you.” (Luke 6:38)

A lot of people have taken this principle and abused it. It is not just giving or the size of your giving, it is the condition of your heart. We tend to be cheap with God.

Commandment #3: Faith Giving

“Tell those who are rich in this world not to be proud and not to trust in their money, which will soon be gone. But their trust should be in the living God, who richly gives us all we need for enjoyment.” (1 Timothy 6:17)

It takes much more faith to give what you have than to give what you do not have.

Commandment #4: Grace Giving

“Remember this – a farmer who plants only a few seed will get a small crop, but the one who plants generously will get a generous crop.” (2 Corinthians 9:6)

When you give to God, by His grace, He returns it. So you have sufficient for yourself and enough to give again.

Commandment #5: Giving in Appreciation

“So two good things will happen – the needs of the Christians in Jerusalem will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanksgiving to God. You will be glorifying God through your generous gifts. For your generosity to them will prove that you are obedient to the Good News of Christ.” (2 Corinthians 9:12-13)

Commandment #6: Systematic Giving

On every Lord’s Day, each of you should put aside some amount of money in relation to what you have earned and save it for this offering. Don’t wait until I get there and then try to collect it all at once.” (1 Corinthians 16:2)

We tend to look for the big gift, but the need is met by a multiplicity of people being systematic.

Commandment #7: All-inclusive Giving

“On every Lord’s Day, each of you should put aside some amount of money in relation to what you have earned and save it for this offering. Don’t wait until I get there and then try to collect it all at once.” (1 Corinthians 16:2)

Every member is important and we should do whatever we can to get everyone on our membership list to be a systematic giver.

Commandment #8: Blessed Giving

“On every Lord’s Day, each of you should put aside some amount of money in relation to what you have earned and save it for this offering. Don’t wait until I get there and then try to collect it all at once.” (1 Corinthians 16:2)

We give as God has blessed us. One of the reasons we are not blessed is because we might not be giving.

Commandment #9: Faithful Giving

“On every Lord’s Day, each of you should put aside some amount of money in relation to what you have earned and save it for this offering. Don’t wait until I get there and then try to collect it all at once.” (1 Corinthians 16:2)

Do not procrastinate your giving. Everybody needs to be systematic, giving as God has blessed them and not waiting to give someday.

Commandment #10: Responsible Giving

“When I come I will write letters of recommendation for the messengers you choose to deliver your gift to Jerusalem. And if it seems appropriate for me also to go along, then we can travel together.” (1 Corinthians 16:3-4)

“We want to avoid any criticism of the way we administer this gift. We are taking pains to do what is right not only in the eyes of the Lord but also in the eyes of men.” (2 Corinthians 8:20-21)

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on The Ten Commandments of Giving

A Long Obedience in the Same Direction

A Long Obedience in the Same Direction: Discipleship in an Instant Society
Eugene Peterson
Intervarsity Press; 20th Anniversary edition (Sept. 20 2006)
ISBN-10: 0830822577
ISBN-13: 978-0830822577

Now retired, Eugene Peterson is probably best known for his award-winning paraphrase of the Bible, The Message: The Bible in Contemporary Language, published in segments from 1993-2002 (NavPress). He was the founding pastor of Christ Our King Presbyterian Church (Bel Air, Maryland) where he served 29 years, followed by an extended tenure as James M. Houston Professor of Spiritual Theology at Regent College (Vancouver, BC, Canada). Peterson is a prolific author and poet, having written over thirty books on pastoral ministry and Christian living.

I was first introduced to Peterson’s work through his book Working the Angles: The Shape of Pastoral Integrity (Eerdmans, 1989). Twenty years later, it still ranks as one of my favorites on pastoral ministry.

Shortly after reading, Working the Angles, I picked up Peterson’s, A Long Obedience in the Same Direction: Discipleship in an Instant Society – a series of meditations on the Songs of Ascent – Psalms 120-134. First published in 1980, and revised and expanded in a 20th anniversary edition (IVP Books, 2000), has sold more than 200,000 copies. (I still have my original 1980 edition – well-read and marked.)

At its heart, pastoral work involves making disciples – leading individuals to faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, equipping them to live obedient, God-honoring lives. As the title implies – A Long Obedience in the Same Direction: Discipleship in an Instant Society – discipleship is a challenging lifelong project for the one doing the discipling and the one being discipled.

Discipleship, in Peterson’s view, is a major challenge because our culture assumes:

… anything worthwhile can be acquired at once. We assume that if something can be done at all, it can be done quickly and efficiently. Our attention spans have been conditioned by thirty-second commercials. Our sense of reality has been flattened by thirty-page abridgments.

It is not difficult in such a world to get a person interested in the message of the gospel; it is terrifically difficult to sustain the interest. Millions of people in our culture make decisions for Christ, but there is a dreadful attrition rate. Many claim to have been born again, but the evidence for mature Christian discipleship is slim. In our kind of culture anything, even news about God, can be sold if it is packaged freshly; but when it loses its novelty, it goes on the garbage heap. There is a great market for religious experience in our world.

In the pastoral work of training people in discipleship and accompanying them in pilgrimage, I have found, tucked away in the Hebrew Psalter, an old dog-eared songbook. I have used it to provide continuity in guiding others in the Christian way, and directing people of faith in the conscious and continuous effort which develops into maturity in Christ. The old songbook is called … the Songs of Ascent … the psalms numbered 120 through 134 in the book of Psalms.

While there are several views as to why these psalms are named Songs of Ascent, Peterson embraces one of the more widely held views – these 15 psalms were sung by Hebrew pilgrims as they made their way up to Jerusalem for the festivals that reminded Israel of God’s intervention in their lives – freeing them from slavery in Egypt and forming them into a nation.

This is not an expositional commentary on psalms 120-134, but rather a reflective reading of each psalm, teasing out major themes related to living as faithful disciples – “worship, service, joy, work, happiness, humility, community and blessing” (publisher’s blurb). I found the book both encouraging and challenging – so much so that I have preached a series of Sunday sermons on these psalms in two of the congregations I have served as pastor. Some of these messages can be accessed at the website of Fellowship Baptist Church in Cobourg, Ontario where I currently serve as Interim Lead Pastor.

If you want to grasp the long-term nature of discipleship, Peterson’s book is a good choice. Don’t look for quick prescriptions or tidy formulas for Christian living, that’s not Peterson’s style. He offers thought-provoking challenges to persevere as a disciple of Christ as a pilgrim in an alien culture. He encourages a long obedience in the same direction.

Purchase this book now.

Amazon Canada Amazon USA
Posted in Review | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments Off on A Long Obedience in the Same Direction

Struggling for the Soul of Our Country

struggling-for-the-soul-of-our-country-p-m-browning-jrStruggling for the Soul of Our Country
Preston M. Browning Jr.
Wipf & Stock, 2016
ISBN: 978-1-4982-0994-6

In ten essays and three appendices, Browning, “a Southerner, an octogenarian, a socialist and, with reservations, a Christian” attempts to explain what he believes is a struggle for the soul of a nation – the soul being defined as “a complex mixture of beliefs, passions, conflicting desires, hopes, fears and contradictions.”

Browning, an academic, author, poet, critic and activist residing in Western Massachusetts where he operates Wellspring House retreat for writers, presents his seasoned views “developed over decades of reading, reflection, and writing.” These essays voice the passionate concerns of a man who has lived his entire life struggling to plant and nurture a new vision for American society. Readers will quickly gain an idea of where Browning stands by simply reading the table of contents

American Global Hegemony vs. the Quest for a New Humanity
American Pathologies and the Response of Faith
Why I am a Christian Socialist
Letter to My Grandchildren
Struggling for the Soul of America
Religionless Christianity in an Age of Spectacle
America’s Forgotten Wars
American Dystopia: Cold War, the CIA, and John F. Kennedy as Sacrificial Victim
Climate Change & Our Shared Earth
The Plague: Money in Politics

Israel’s Heartlessness: We See It in the Treatment of Palestinians
Anger and Hope

As with all of us, Browning’s life experiences have influenced his worldview. A child of the Great Depression, he was raised in rural Virginia in an Episcopalian family.

At church he regularly encountered the message of ancient Hebrew prophets of the Old Testament along with the words of Jesus, most of which he understood to have “excoriated the wealthy of their day for oppressing the poor and ignoring the suffering of the neglected and dispossessed in their midst.”

At home Browning had a mother who

“spent much of her time as a kind of unlicensed and unpaid social worker, visiting some of the most destitute citizens of our county, bringing to these wretched folk food, clothing, and sometimes a little cash but most importantly, a reminder that they were not forgotten.”

Browning says he “never recovered” from those impressionable years.

At a fairly early age I developed a distinct distaste for money-grubbing and an inchoate suspicion of capitalist ideologues, though it would be several decades before I was able to clearly articulate my deep repugnance and later yet before I realized it, although I had read little of Marx since my college days and had never attended a gathering of socialists, I was, in all but name, a socialist. Hence the motif that appears in one way or another in many of these pieces – an unqualified antipathy toward contemporary multinational capitalism and the American empire that supports it – follows quite naturally from the impressions and experiences of my childhood.

The foundation of Browning’s analysis of the state of America’s soul rests on four assumptions:

(1)   that the many pathologies that undermine the psychological and spiritual health of America, including our addiction to violence of all sorts, are closely associate with the brutal, unrelenting quest for wealth that US capitalism epitomizes;
(2)   that an economic system that destroys lives, families, communities, and the Earth, as does contemporary multinational capitalism, is neither sustainable nor worthy of the support of those who suffer its abuses;
(3)   that America is a sick society breeding sick individuals and that only a radical revolution of mind and heart is likely to prevent future catastrophe;
(4)   that as a society we face several major crises, the most immediately threatening of which is global warming, with which we are unprepared and seemingly unwilling to deal, at least with the seriousness such a threat requires.

Throughout these essays, Browning explores American history, foreign policy, economics, human rights, and environmental concerns – all matters of critical importance.

While left-leaning liberals (nothing pejorative intended here) will applaud most, if not all, Browning has to say, right-leaning free market conservatives (again, nothing pejorative intended) will likely dismiss the book as a socialistic, utopian rant. That would be unfortunate, for while one may not agree with Browning’s diagnosis and prescription, he raises many uncomfortable questions for all Americans. He deserves to be respectfully heard.

Browning is troubled by “American exceptionalism”, the belief that the USA is a superior nation above all others. For those who may believe this is no big deal, he says this exceptionalism is demonstrated by:

an American propensity to studiously disregard the opinions of other peoples respecting our country’s actions and, in fact, to regard any opposition to official US decisions as outright hostility.

He illustrates the assertion by reminding readers of the disdain America held toward countries that refused to join the US attack on Iraq in 2003.

Further, Browning believes America’s ignorance of its own history, along with the desire to live only in present means that the country continually fails to learn the lessons from its own past.

There is very little encouragement for contemporary America in this collection of essays. Browning challenges our own self-understanding as a morally upright, compassionate nation striving to enable peoples around the world to live in freedom and security. He sees the nation as driven by imperialistic aims – ensuring Americans continue to enjoy the good life at the expense of everyone else.

While I do not agree with all that he identifies as problems – his seeming disregard for the horrendous history of the Soviet and Chinese socialistic experiment is problematic to say the least – I believe he has identified many issues and hypocrisies within American culture that can no longer afford ignoring.

There is one matter which I cannot ignore. Browning describes himself as a Christian, and as an evangelical Christian myself – one who has invested the last 46 years of life in pastoral ministry – I confess that his understanding of what constitutes being a Christian is radically different from mine. To make my point, consider this statement he makes to his grandchildren in the essay entitled “Letter to My Grandchildren”. He writes:

I know that none of you believes in the supernatural, intervening God of traditional religion; neither do I. But I do believe that there is a spiritual force in the universe that in some way makes our lives – all life, in fact – possible and that prevents the universe and the Earth from flying apart into trillions of bits and pieces.

Whomever, or whatever, this god described by Browning is, he certainly is not describing the God revealed in the Bible – the Old and New Testament Scriptures of Christianity. The God of the Bible is a personal, all-knowing, all-powerful, ever-present God who intends to renew and restore the creation we have so carelessly and rebelliously destroyed. This Creator God has promised to create a new heaven and earth where righteousness will prevail (2 Peter 3:1-18).

As Americans go to the polls this November to elect a president from among the two most unpopular candidates in history, and in light of the surprisingly strong primary campaign led by the avowed socialist, Bernie Sanders, Browning’s essays speak to many issues on the hearts and minds of the American public.

Purchase this book now.
Amazon Canada Amazon USA
Posted in Review | Tagged , , , , , , , | Comments Off on Struggling for the Soul of Our Country

The Christian Lover

the-christian-lover--michael-haykinThe Christian Lover: The Sweetness of Love and Marriage in the Letters of Believers
Michael A.G. Haykin with Victoria J. Haykin
Reformation Trust Publishing, 2009
ISBN: 978-1567691115

Carl Trueman, Professor of historical theology and church history at Westminster Theological Seminary (Philadelphia), captures well my response to The Christian Lover.

Michael Haykin never ceases to surprise with his gift for producing unusual books on neglected aspects of church history. Here he gives his readers insights into the love lives of some of the great saints of the past, bringing out their humanity in touching and unique ways. An unusual book, certainly, but well worth reading.

I discovered this book while perusing my Facebook page – a friend had posted a link to the Kindle version offered for free at the time. I was interested because Michael Haykin is a personal friend whose work I appreciate, particularly his historical research of Calvinistic Baptists – a heritage that I happily want to share.

Michael Haykin is a prolific author and editor (see “Books & Papers” here), but this particular title struck me as so unique, I immediately downloaded it and began reading. I did not put my iPad down until the last word. Trueman is right: “An unusual book, certainly, but well worth reading.

Marriage has fallen upon hard times. Not only is western culture floundering on the very understanding of what constitutes marriage, the Christian church also seems increasingly comfortable with ending marriages for any number of reasons.

In his Introduction, Michael Haykin reminds us that:

At the heart of marriage, as conceived by God in the primal state, is the intention that the husband delight in and passionately love his wife, and vice versa.

But as is sadly too often the case with many biblical principles, Haykin says:

A cursory study of the history of love and marriage within Christian circles will reveal, however, that this divine ideal has not always been heeded and , indeed, sometimes has been rejected.

He supports his assertion with examples of faulty views of marriage from such notable church fathers as Jerome (4th Century Bible scholar) and Augustine (Latin-speaking theologian of the same era). This influence carried in the Middle Ages through the influence of Bede (ca.673-735) and other Roman Catholic authors of that period.

Haykin believes that the Reformation brought, not only a “rediscovery of the heart of the gospel and the way of salvation”, but also “a recovery of a fully biblical view of marriage.” He gives the remainder of the Introduction to showing how Calvin (1509-1564), the 17th century Puritans, and 18th & 19th century evangelicals rehabilitated marriage, bringing it back to a solid, biblical foundation.

Correspondence between twelve couples spanning the 16th – 20th centuries forms to heart of this book.

16th Century
Martin & Katharina Luther
John & Idelette Calvin

17th Century
John & Lucy Hutchinson (17th Century)

18th Century
Philip & Mercy Doddridge
Benjamin Beddome & Anne Steele
Henry & Eling Venn
Thomas & Sally Charles
Samuel & Sarah Pearce

19th Century
Adoniram & Ann Judson
John & Lottie Broadus

20th Century
Martyn & Bethan Lloyd-Jones

Each couple is introduced with a brief overview of the lives and ministries, followed by correspondence that passed between them. The letters reveal a full range of human emotion – deep and abiding love, concern for one another’s spiritual well-being, as well as genuine passion to serve the God they love.

I could not help notice how the language and writing style changed through the centuries, becoming tighter and much less adorned as they move toward the 20th century. Rarely, if ever, does one see the richness of expression evidenced in earlier times. Letter writing itself has fallen on hard times.

The marriages portrayed were not perfect, but they were rooted in love for God, commitment to God’s design for marriage, and devotion to one another as husband and wife. This is surely worth reading.

Purchase this book now.

Amazon Canada Amazon USA
Posted in Review | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on The Christian Lover

Avoid Genealogies: When Family Trees Become a Problem

family-tree-imageTracing family roots is a fascinating project that can occupy countless hours. A few years ago, a personal friend and colleague in ministry, Glenn Tomlinson (Sovereign Grace Community Church, Sarnia, Ontario) did some research for me, tracing my family line (Daniels) back to 1640, when a Davy Daniels left Scotland for what became the New England colonies.

According to, the top ten genealogy sites for 2015 are:
My Heritage
US National Archives
The National Archives UK
Commonwealth War Graves Commission (CWGC)
Family Search

You can reach any of these sites through the links provided at

Cultures, ancient and modern, have always been interested by ancestors – family trees. The Mormon church places significant theological importance in ancestors as living Mormons can practice proxy baptism for their dead, making possible for their dead relatives to have a second chance at Heaven. Here’s their answer to the question, “Why do Mormons perform baptisms for the dead?”

Jesus Himself, though without sin, was baptized to fulfill all righteousness and to show the way for all mankind (see Matthew 3:13-17; 2 Nephi 31:5-12). Thus, baptism is essential for salvation in the kingdom of God. We learn in the New Testament that baptisms for the dead were done during the Apostle Paul’s time (see 1 Corinthians 15:29). This practice has been restored with the establishment of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The Prophet Joseph Smith first taught about the ordinance of baptism for the dead during a funeral sermon in August 1840. He read much of 1 Corinthians 15, including verse 29, and announced that the Lord would permit Church members to be baptized in behalf of their friends and relatives who had departed this life. He told them “the plan of salvation was calculated to save all who were willing to obey the requirements of the law of God” (Journal History of the Church, 15 Aug. 1840).

Because all who have lived on the earth have not had the opportunity to be baptized by proper authority during life on earth, baptisms may be performed by proxy, meaning a living person may be baptized in behalf of a deceased person. Baptisms for the dead are performed by Church members in temples throughout the world. People have occasionally wondered if the mortal remains of the deceased are somehow disturbed in this process; they are not. The person acting as a proxy uses only the name of the deceased. To prevent duplication, the Church keeps a record of the deceased persons who have been baptized. Some have misunderstood that when baptisms for the dead are performed the names of deceased persons are being added to the membership records of the Church. This is not the case.

Small wonder that family trees play an important role in the Mormon religion. That I do not believe one can find adequate Biblical support for the legitimacy of proxy baptism is a question to be answered at another time.

The first full-fledged family tree in Scripture opens with these words: “This is the written account of Adam’s line” (Gen 5:1). Throughout the rest of the Old Testament, various genealogies and family lists appear. The book of Numbers is so named because of the two census lists appearing in the text – one at the outset of the wilderness wanderings, and one at the conclusion. Both Ezra and Nehemiah contain genealogical lists relating to the Jews who returned to Israel from the Babylonian exile. And who can forget the amazing family tree of our Lord Jesus recorded in the gospels of Matthew and Luke.

With such emphasis on family lines in the Bible, what are we to make of Paul’s warning to both Timothy and Titus, pastors of newly planted first century congregations?

“…command certain men not to teach false doctrines any longer nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. These promote controversies rather than God’s work…” (1 Timothy 1:3-4).

“…avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because they are unprofitable and useless” (Titus 3:9).

[Scripture taken from the New International Version (1984) Emphasis mine]

With these stern warnings, is the Apostle Paul denigrating the value of all those family trees found in Scripture? Was it not Paul who wrote: “For everything that was written in the past” – and he refers here to the O.T. texts, including the genealogical lists – “was written to teach us, so that through the endurance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope” (Romans 15:4)?

To answer that question, we need to consider the possible context of Paul’s warnings to Timothy and Titus. Perhaps a few Jewish believers were trying to use their family heritage to procure privileged positions within the churches. Paul himself had once taken great pride in his family tree: “If anyone else thinks he has reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more…of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews…” (Philippians 3:4-5). However, following his conversion experience, Paul declared his once-important lineage to be little more than “rubbish” compared to knowing Christ (Php. 3:8).

Further, the fact that Paul mentions “quarrels about the law” in the same warning, could mean that some within the churches were seeking to give permanence to what God intended to be temporary (See Galatians 3:24-25).

The biblical family trees remind us of God’s sovereign control of all history – that he works through free moral agents to accomplish his divinely decreed purposes. However, those same biblical genealogies were never meant to provide occasion for pride or presumed privilege within the New Covenant community of God.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Avoid Genealogies: When Family Trees Become a Problem